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10 <br /> Mrs. Davis used her power and authority as an extension agent to uniquely influence race <br /> relations. I remember Mrs. Davis visiting my mother to check in on sewing projects and cooking <br /> projects. It was confusing to me because I knew my mother came from an Indigenous family <br /> known for their cooking and sewing skills. Months later, I remember riding with my mother to <br /> Cole Mill Road in Durham. We pulled up to a large white house and mother went inside. I waited <br /> in the car for about an hour before my mother returned. When mother returned, we went home <br /> without discussing what happened in the big white house. A few weeks later, I saw my mother <br /> on television appearing on the Peggy Mann Show. Mother was demonstrating how to cook a <br /> particular dish. Mother did a series of appearances demonstrating cooking and sewing. I was <br /> nearly an adult when I learned that mother had been one of this area's first People of Color to <br /> appear as a guest on the Peggy Mann Show. <br /> Mrs. Davis expanded Orange County's extension services among African Americans by <br /> encouraging home economics clubs to form 4-H clubs. My mother sprang into action and formed <br /> Eno 4-H Club. Although we had 4-H agents to come around and assist us with our meetings and <br /> projects, Ms. Davis visited independently. I began membership within our 4-H club with my first <br /> project being Bicycle Care and Repair. From there I moved into sewing. The sewing project <br /> included a competition where one modeled the article of clothing she made. I was extremely thin <br /> and painfully shy in my youth. With the encouragement of Ms. Davis, I actually, got on the <br /> homemade platform, which served as our runway, in the middle of University Mall in Chapel Hill <br /> and I modeled my outfit. I do not remember if I won the first time or second time, but I did win <br /> first place in my age group. The accolades from the audience and Mrs. Davis' act of introducing <br /> me as the winner and introducing me to strangers so they could ask me about my jumpsuit <br /> diminished my shyness. <br /> A large part of my shyness stemmed from a speech impediment discovered early in my childhood. <br /> With the support of Ms. Davis, my mother declined the offer to place me in what would now be <br /> an exceptional children's curriculum. By the time I reached middle school, Mrs. Davis suggested <br /> that I should participate in the 4H speaking contest. Certain that I was doomed for death, I figured <br /> it was easier to just do it, endure the heckling, and be done for life. I wrote a speech about a <br /> popular subject in the news. Mrs. Davis approved the speech and instructed my mother to have <br /> me recite it daily. I did so. Mrs. Davis would drop in and gently correct me on pronunciation and <br /> enunciation. I followed her instructions. On the evening of the contest, we went to Hillsborough <br /> to the building that currently houses Adult Probation/Parole and The Department of Juvenile <br /> Justice. When my name was called, I managed to go to the front and stand behind the podium. <br /> recited my speech taking care to slow down to enunciate certain words and I remembered not <br /> to use local dialect when pronouncing other words. At the end of the competition, I was the <br /> winner. That event, and other strategic opportunities suggested by Mrs. Davis-including working <br /> as a prosecutor in Orange County, led to my 26 year career of public service within my community <br /> of origin. <br /> I am aware that Mrs. Davis' influence covers many African Americans in Orange County. I am not <br /> sure of all that she has done for others but I know how her influence shaped my life making me <br /> the person I am today. <br />