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y� ,M <br />0 =7 <br />. . e ��sexe' �e <br />I� I1zs i tz st Make hi � 4(d), f�f .�5ex.,> C, 1 s erable, <br />ak nable, I f <br />W4, _ Me' « , 1��s 11 <br />�.�.s 1� . � �1 � u Q ���11 ' <br />11 j��.st 1'serc3b << ue life rn.lserab�e, <br />le, <br />Conflicts over interests. Conflicts over concerns. <br />Conflicts over the interpretation of laws and <br />regulations. Each party believes its interests and <br />corlcern5 a.re parain.otl.n.t. Each party believes Its <br />facts are accurate, its take on the situation. true <br />and clear. Farmers and neighbors often do n.ot <br />talk to each other about the problem. <br />Or... One party is not. satisfied with the response <br />of the other. <br />Or... One party doesn't understand the other's <br />point of -view or the other's fears. <br />And sometimes both sides think about escalat- <br />ing., which in. turn raises the specter of reprisal. <br />But farmers and neighbors have more con- <br />structive options besides ignoring each other, <br />shouting, or threatening . They can build under- <br />standing and work on reconciling their differ- <br />ences in a way that leads to win -win outcomes. <br />Because doing so... <br />saves time <br />saves money <br />saves aggravation <br />i avoids hurt feelings <br />3 builds trust <br />i builds relationships <br />-� builds communities <br />3 generates outcomes more <br />likely to meet everyone's needs <br />6 <br />So, -Mien a conflict threatens to spin out of <br />control, what. can you do "? <br />Try a different approach to resolving conflict. <br />.Empower yourself and your conimtin.ity. Reach <br />out to people with collaborative problem-solv- <br />ing skills. People like mediators or facilitators <br />who can help .parties in conflict move beyond <br />accusations, anger, and frustration to instead <br />focus on issues, mutual interests.. a ld problem. - <br />solving strategies. <br />t <br />communa-, <br />proD.tenn!.- <br />r <br />helps fariners and neighbors resolve conflicts <br />in a rnanner that l)uilds trust and enliances <br />coIninunity understanding. <br />to <br />learn <br />more, <br />read <br />on... <br />