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~~t~cr~' ~~ Jan- ~~, ate' ~OCC /!/1,:~ w~..s <br />3 <br />2 <br />The Chair dispensed with the reading of the public charge. <br />~: ~ Public Comments <br />a. Aflatters not on the Printed Agenda <br />Shannon Jackson, Vice-Chair of Orange County Commission for Women, said that she <br />recently attended a Woman's Advocacy Day. She said that she spoke with Senator Ellie . <br />Kinnaird and Representative Verla Insko about the absence of a women's shelter in Orange <br />County. They were both supportive of Bill SP 31 HB 43 n:ganiing a domestic violence <br />appropriation. If passed, this bill wouk! allow funding for domestic violence programs, local <br />initiatives, and would provide $2 million for matching grant funds for the construction of a <br />domestic violence shelter. She introduced Dr. Arthrell Sanders, who read a letter regarding <br />domestic violence. <br />Dr. Arthrell Sanders read the letter. <br />Scarred by Abuse Leiter <br />`The 2008 Women's History Month celebration of the Orange County Commission for <br />Women was entitled `Domestic Violence is NOT Just a Women's Issue.' This topic was <br />espeaalty timely in light of recent news coverage of the plight of Johnston County resident <br />Vemetta Cockefiam-Ellerbee, who survived a horrifying attack during which her ex-husband <br />stabbed her repeatedly and murdered her daughter. The N8~0 reported that Vemetta `had <br />taken a single step into the foyer when a knife struck her head, its blade breaking off inside. <br />Ellerbee reached for another knife and stabbed her twice more, he then reached for a piece of <br />broken glass ftom a shelf, shattered in the struggle. He tried to scratch her eyes out and <br />shredded her hands instead as she shielded her eyes. She blacked out as Ellerbee choked <br />her.' <br />This case is a reminder that domestic violence can happen anywhere -even in quiet <br />North Carolina counties like ours. According to the North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic <br />Volence, 85 domestic violence murders took place in the last year. Nobody denies the <br />existence of domestic violence; we just like to pretend that it doesn't happen in our <br />neighborhoods. But we're wrong. And by denying the existence of domestic violence in our <br />community, we are also denying survivors access to some necessary services. While Orange <br />County has many excellent n:sources, including the Orange County Family Uolence Prevention <br />Center, we lack one essential asset: a domestic violence shelter. <br />Survivors of domestic abuse in Orange County must be ferried to Chatham or Durham, <br />because they cannot be accommodated in their home county. White the State of North <br />Carolina mandates that every county have an animal shelter, no such protection is afforded for <br />Domestic Violence survivors. We must therefore take responsibility for providing our oWn <br />solution. <br />This conundrum has not escaped the notice of our elected officials. Mike Nelson, <br />Moses Carey, and Ellie Kinnaird expressed concern about this issue at the Commission for <br />Women's Domestic Violence event. Although we understand.that the County faces signficant <br />budget challenges this year, the Orange County Commission for Women respectFulfy requests <br />that the County Commissioners make a domestic violence shelter a top priority moving <br />forward." <br />Hudson Fuller is one of the founders of the Family Violence Prevention Center. She <br />introduced three board members. Each year the Family violence Prevention Center serves <br />over 600 individuals, mostly women, who are I"Wring in abusive situations. She said that at the <br />time that a women comes forward ready to leave an abusive situation, the community should <br />offer her and her children everything possible to help. What is most often needed is a safe <br />